Retention Beats Distribution for Platform Winners
by Brian Balfour on August 17, 2025
The emergence of ChatGPT as a new distribution platform presents a rare growth opportunity that follows predictable cycles seen in previous platforms like Facebook, Google, and mobile.
The Four-Step Platform Cycle
Step 0: Market Conditions Are Met
- There's consensus about a new huge category emerging (AI chat platforms)
- No clear winner yet, with 5-7 major players battling (OpenAI, Claude, Gemini, etc.)
- Fierce competition with huge capital investments
Step 1: Identifying and Building the Moat
- A player identifies what will create defensibility and help reach escape velocity
- For ChatGPT, the moat appears to be context and memory
- "The actual difference maker is which one has more of your context"
- "The more you use it, the more it's able to store memory around you which feeds more personalized context"
- The platform needs to press this advantage as quickly as possible
Step 2: Opening the Platform
- The platform establishes a third-party ecosystem to gather more of their moat
- They create incentives for developers and businesses to build on their platform
- The value exchange: "You develop on top of my platform, and in exchange I'll give you distribution"
- This creates a gold rush of developers and businesses joining the platform
Step 3: Closing for Control and Monetization
- Eventually, platforms begin locking down through:
- Shutting down third-party access entirely
- Developing first-party applications that absorb highest-value use cases
- Artificially depressing organic distribution to push toward paid mechanisms
- By this point, the platform has built such a lead that competitors can't catch up
Why This Matters Now
- We're seeing all the conditions for a new distribution platform to emerge
- ChatGPT shows signals of preparing to launch a third-party platform
- The cycles are getting shorter and shorter - you have less time to capitalize
- This is a rare opportunity - new major distribution channels emerge infrequently
How to Play the Game
For Startups
- You must play the game - "There is no opting out"
- Place a focused bet on one platform (unlike larger companies that can spread bets)
- Choose based on:
- Retention and depth of engagement (not just MAUs)
- User quality and monetization potential
- The value exchange offered
- Scale (but not at the expense of the other factors)
For Established Companies
- You can place multiple bets across platforms
- If you don't participate, competitors will, and customer expectations will change
- "It ends up being a prisoner's dilemma"
Planning Your Exit Strategy
- As soon as you enter the game, start planning your exit strategy
- Build ways to own important parts of the user experience
- Accumulate specialized data and context the major platforms don't have
- Create micro-network effects that persist beyond the platform
Why ChatGPT Is Likely to Win
- They were first to implement memory features
- They're investing heavily in context connectors
- Their retention curves show significantly higher engagement than competitors
- They display the rare "smile curve" in retention (usage increases over time)
- They're already hiring for roles related to a third-party platform
The window of opportunity is narrow - likely the next six months - so companies need to prepare to move quickly when these platforms fully open.
Strategic Thinking for AI Adoption
- Historical winners succeed by superior retention and engagement rather than having the widest distribution at launch
- The most successful companies place constraints that force AI adoption
- Leaders must get close to the ground floor to understand actual adoption
- The system's output is constrained by its slowest part - address bottlenecks systematically