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Escalation as a Tool, Not Failure

by Molly Graham on January 4, 2026

Escalation as a Strategic Tool for Decision-Making

When teams get stuck in disagreement, most people view escalation negatively - as tattling or admitting failure. This mindset creates organizational drag as people waste time in circular debates rather than moving forward.

The Escalation Framework

  • Escalation is a neutral decision-making tool, not a sign of failure
  • It exists to unblock teams when they lack sufficient context or decision-making authority
  • The key difference is in the approach:
    • Ineffective escalation: Going behind someone's back to "tell on them"
    • Effective escalation: Going together to present the disagreement to someone with more authority

When to escalate

  • When two people with equal power are stuck in disagreement
  • When you've spent significant time debating without resolution
  • When the decision requires context or authority you don't possess
  • As soon as you recognize you're at an impasse

How to escalate effectively

  • Go together to your manager or appropriate decision-maker
  • Present both perspectives clearly
  • Frame it as seeking resolution, not validation of your position
  • Focus on the business need for a decision, not personal preferences

Benefits of normalized escalation

  • Saves tremendous time and energy across the organization
  • Prevents teams from getting bogged down in unproductive debates
  • Allows managers to add value by applying their broader context
  • Creates clearer accountability for decisions
  • Reduces interpersonal friction by removing the burden of "winning" an argument

Implementation advice

  • Leaders should explicitly encourage escalation as positive behavior
  • Teams should establish clear escalation paths for different types of decisions
  • Managers should respond positively when teams escalate appropriately
  • The culture should recognize that management exists partly to unblock teams

As Mark Zuckerberg emphasized at Facebook: "Escalation is a tool" - it's what management is for, so let them unblock you instead of arguing over something you can't decide.