Escalation as a Tool, Not Failure
by Molly Graham on January 4, 2026
Escalation as a Strategic Tool for Decision-Making
When teams get stuck in disagreement, most people view escalation negatively - as tattling or admitting failure. This mindset creates organizational drag as people waste time in circular debates rather than moving forward.
The Escalation Framework
- Escalation is a neutral decision-making tool, not a sign of failure
- It exists to unblock teams when they lack sufficient context or decision-making authority
- The key difference is in the approach:
- Ineffective escalation: Going behind someone's back to "tell on them"
- Effective escalation: Going together to present the disagreement to someone with more authority
When to escalate
- When two people with equal power are stuck in disagreement
- When you've spent significant time debating without resolution
- When the decision requires context or authority you don't possess
- As soon as you recognize you're at an impasse
How to escalate effectively
- Go together to your manager or appropriate decision-maker
- Present both perspectives clearly
- Frame it as seeking resolution, not validation of your position
- Focus on the business need for a decision, not personal preferences
Benefits of normalized escalation
- Saves tremendous time and energy across the organization
- Prevents teams from getting bogged down in unproductive debates
- Allows managers to add value by applying their broader context
- Creates clearer accountability for decisions
- Reduces interpersonal friction by removing the burden of "winning" an argument
Implementation advice
- Leaders should explicitly encourage escalation as positive behavior
- Teams should establish clear escalation paths for different types of decisions
- Managers should respond positively when teams escalate appropriately
- The culture should recognize that management exists partly to unblock teams
As Mark Zuckerberg emphasized at Facebook: "Escalation is a tool" - it's what management is for, so let them unblock you instead of arguing over something you can't decide.